I know I probably shouldn't be writing this. I myself have never had a love. But I like to think that I have a while. And I am the "Go-to girl" for advice to give to my friends and it usually works. So here are some tips and I give you the best of luck in finding your one and only love.
Step #1:
Eye contact!
Whenever you walk past your guy, Give him a quick glimpse in the eyes while having a suddle smile. Then simply look away with a lingering smile.
Whenever he is talking to you about something, lower your chin and look right into his eyes to let him know you are listening.
Step #2:
Find yourself.
No guy likes it when a girl cakes on makeup. Find yourself in this process with just adding some blush, covering up those pimples, put a light foundation around yours eyes, and most importantly put mascara on to draw him into your eyes.
Step #3:
Go against the Memo!
Why would a guy go for someone who is a dublicate? Your fashion is one of the main ways to figure out who you really are and how you express yourself. BE DIFFERENT. That way he can notice you. You also want to emphisize your best features like your booty or your waist. But don't seem slutty. Wear belts around your waist or but belts on your jeans to draw his attention.
Step #4:
Body Language.
When you get the chance to stand near him in the lunch line or even walking down the hall, you want to be close but not so close that its creepy! Maybe brush your fingers along his slowy then let your hand hang. NEVER cross your arms or he will think that you are not interested. And when sitting, cross your legs so that they point towards him. Its a suddle signal.
Step #5:
Talk to him.
Whenever you get the chance to talk to him you want to look away at first then make eye contact and always face your body towards him. make sure that you dont stutter and flash a closed or slightly open smile towards him every once in a while. Lean into him. Let him feel the electricity.
Step #6:
Don't smell rank.
Multiple of these steps express closeness and with that comes how you smell. You don't want to overwhelm his nose with perfumes. Focus on spraying down your wrists, neck and chest. Therefore if you happen to hug, he can smell your yumminess. And try to find soft perfumes that arn't overwhelming yet delicious. And use deodorants and DONT USE MINTS! Mints get the saliva in your mouth circulating which can create bad breath. Try those portable toothbrushes.
Step #7:
Dates.
When he happens to ask you on a date, try something other than a movie and a bite to eat. Try out walking downtown or visiting an interesting museum. First dates can be awkward so do something that can keep you both talking. Go to a small concert!
Step #8:
Touching hands.
When your hands finally intertwine, you want to keep them moving and not make it awkward. Twittle your thumbs along his hand. And every once in a while you want to give his hand a slight squeeze. The movement of your hands will make sure that they don't get clammy either.
Step #9:
Will he kiss you?
At the right moment, where you feel like you should kiss, you need to make eye contact with him then slowly look at his lips. Then make your way back to his eyes. If he dosn't lower in to kiss you, you should lower in. And kiss him. Keep your kiss light but lingering. Don't open your mouth quite yet. Let him wait. And when its done go back to making eye contact. EYE CONTACT IS KEY!
Step #10:
The "L" word.
You have done all of the right steps. Now, is he in love with you?? Try watching a romatic movie but not the Titantic. For some reason guys HATE that movie. Try the Last Song. After the movie kiss him and excuse yourself to the bathroom to give him some time to think about whether he loves you. And When he finally says it, kiss him lightly and tell him you love him back.
BOOM. Your in love. Im so happy for you! Invite me to the wedding Please? You will know whether you are in love or not. Tons of guys will come and go from your heart. They will make your heart flutter. Make you smile. But only one will give you the feeling of you wanting to give everything up for him. One boy will make you know what you were living for.
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